Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Are You A Distracted Driver?

How many times have you been driving along only to notice the person in front of you drift from side to side on the road? Or maybe they've been driving at a good speed then suddenly slow down for no apparent reason? You name it I'm sure we've all seen it. Distracted driving whether it be a driver texting, talking on a cell phone, messing with the radio, yelling at the kids...the list can go on and on...I had a ferret once and unfortunately I did not really enjoy the smelly little pet (Don't get me wrong they are adorable and incredibly smart) so I had found someone to take him but I had to deliver him, so we packed him in his cage I put my three year old in her car seat next to the cage and off we drove right??? WRONG! First the cage part had come unhooked from the bottom when I had put it in, of course I did not notice this till we were well on our way because my daughter was screaming that it was out. I feared that it would scratch her all up but instead the cute little fuzzy critter decided to come hang out with me...ha ha...OH YES! as I drove down the road I had a ferret on my lap..then my shoulder... then my head.. and I will be the first to admit that yes I was distracted between the ferret, my daughters screams and laughter and worrying it would pee everywhere I hardly paid attention to the road and I am sure that my radio was on as well...ha ha now the best part of the story is that I was living in a foreign country at the time and we were driving on the opposite side of the road as well..how's that for distracted??? ha ha Now maybe you've never had the ferret incident happen to you but you know what I am talking about. Have your kids ever been fighting and you are watching them more than the road? Or you answer a call on your cellphone? Or maybe the radio station you were listening to just turned to nothing but talk? Or maybe just maybe it's been a long day and you are just tired...................Every single one of those things makes you a distracted driver. What happens if the car in front of you slams on their brakes and your not paying attention? Or someone steps off the curb and you didn't see them? I see it every day and I know you do too..Our cellphones and any other electronic gadget is a huge distraction so please I beg you to limit use of your phone while driving to emergency situations only, DO NOT TEXT WHILE DRIVING!, put in a favorite CD when on the road, and set rules for your children when in the car. You might get lucky and swerve and miss an oncoming car but a telephone pole or tree might mean instant death for you and your family is that worth it? And above all don't drive with ferrets...EVER!! Stay Safe :)

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Welcome to Super Mom Under Construction

Welcome to my blog! Super Mom Under Construction is all about a REAL mom's struggles, tips u name it anything I can do to help other REAL moms out. I am super sick of mommies being pitted against each other. Who's better the stay at home mom or the full time working mom? I say both are equally awesome as long as they take the time to love their kids and enjoy their family. Why does one mom get all kinds of comments about how much time she has on her hands when she makes some neato cupcakes for her kids birthday party? or why does everyone always assume that just because you work all day you don't want to be involved in your child's school activities? It's all bull it's all about making time for the things you find important. One mom may adore making cupcakes just because it makes her kids smile even though she is tired and has worked all day, or another may just enjoy picking up some teddy grams at the store because she knows it is her child's favorite and she misses them when she gets some time to herself. Which one deserves the Super Mom award? Both of course! My point to all this is that NO ONE can be SUPER MOM all the time we can try and try until there is nothing left but in the end no one will be smiling and who really wants that?